‘Selling Sunset’ on Netflix: Who Is Ralph Brown, Amanza Smith’s Ex-Husband?

Netflix’s hit reality show Selling Sunset is back with more episodes, more drama, and even more cast members. Newcomer Amanza Smith upped her game in the Oppenheim Group in Season 2, going from a home stager to a full-on real estate agent—and she got the screen time to match. Not only did she get into it with Heather about her relationship, Smith came to the defense of Mary numerous times—to the point where Christine started calling Smith a bodyguard!

But Amanza Smith really piqued viewers’ interest when she mentioned her previous relationship with the father of her two children. The story sounded intense, what with his failure to pay child support and disappearance and all. So, who is Amanza Smith’s ex-husband and what went down between them? Here’s what we know.

Who is Amanza Smith’s ex-husband?

The ex that Smith refers to in Selling Sunset is Ralph Brown, a former NFL player.  After playing for the Nebraska Cornhuskers in college, Brown made his NFL debut in 2000 playing for the New York Giants. Over the course of his 10-year career as a pro cornerback, he played for the Giants, the Minnesota Vikings, the Cleveland Browns, and the Arizona Cardinals.

As far as his relationship with Smith goes, they met sometime around or before 2009; that’s when their first child was born (going off the ages Smith lists in this Instagram post from December). They got married in 2010, and you can even see part of the wedding as a trailer for the event (yes, a trailer) is still on YouTube.

The couple’s second child was born in 2011. Smith and Brown ultimately split up sometime between 2011 and 2013. As Smith said on Selling Sunset, life since then hasn’t exactly been easy. Brown fell off the grid for a while and Smith had to explore sole-custody options as he failed to pay child support. She also makes it a point to state that he is a good father, so, clearly they’ve worked some things out regarding their family dynamic over the past few years.

What is Ralph Brown’s net worth?

While there’s not information readily available about his net worth today, you can see how much he made during his NFL career from 2006 to 2009 over at spotrac. Over the course of those four years, Brown made $2.78 million. That’s nothing to sneeze at, sure, but it’s also not spectacular for an NFL player; players make an average of $2.7 million a season, so Brown’s salary was literally average.

When did Amanza Smith and Ralph Brown get divorced?

As for when they split, it was sometime between 2011 and 2013 as Smith was seen with a new, high-profile boyfriend in early 2014: Taye Diggs. They dated for four years and split up in 2018.

Taye Diggs (R) and Amanza Smith Brown attend the ABFF Awards Pre-Reception
Photo: Getty Images/Noel Vasquez

Now Amanza Smith is single and ready to mingle on Selling Sunset—in between raising her two kids and enjoying a career as a home stager and real estate agent and starring on a reality show and dealing with all that co-worker drama. Okay, she’s got a lot on her plate.

You can stream Selling Sunset Season 2 on Netflix right now.

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