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Generation Friends: An Inside Look at the Show That Defined a Television Era Kindle Edition

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A fascinating behind-the-scenes look at Friends, published for the twenty-fifth anniversary of the show's premiere. Howyoudoin’?

In September 1994, six friends sat down in their favorite coffee shop and began bantering about sex, relationships, jobs, and just about everything else. A quarter of a century later, new fans are still finding their way into the lives of Rachel, Ross, Joey, Chandler, Monica, and Phoebe, and thanks to the show’s immensely talented creators, its intimate understanding of its youthful audience, and its reign during network television’s last moment of dominance, 
Friends has become the most influential and beloved show of its era. Friends has never gone on a break, and this is the story of how it all happened.

Noted pop culture historian Saul Austerlitz utilizes exclusive interviews with creators David Crane and Marta Kauffman, executive producer Kevin Bright, director James Burrows, and many other producers, writers, and cast members to tell the story of 
Friends’ creation, its remarkable decade-long run, and its astonishing Netflix-fueled afterlife. Readers will go behind the scenes to hear from the people who were present as the show was developed and cast, written and filmed. There will be talk of trivia contests, prom videos, trips to London, Super Bowls, lesbian weddings, wildly popular hairstyles, superstar cameos, mad dashes to the airport, and million-dollar contracts. They’ll also discover surprising details—that Monica and Joey were the show’s original romantic couple, how Danielle Steel probably saved Jennifer Aniston’s career, and why Friends is still so popular that if it was a new show, its over-the-air broadcast reruns would be the ninth-highest-rated program on TV.  
 
The show that defined the 1990s has a legacy that has endured beyond wildest expectations. And in this hilarious, informative, and entertaining book, readers will now understand why.
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Editorial Reviews

Review

“Saul Austerlitz gets at the heart of [the show’s] appeal.”
—New York Magazine 

“[An] under-the-hood chronicle of the nineties sitcom.”

The New Yorker

“Austerlitz has written a love letter for fans of the show to remember key moments from the 10-season run of
Friends while also revealing the good and bad of how difficult it is to create a show, put it on the air and find lightning in a bottle.”
Associated Press

"An engaging read with lots to appeal to 
Friends fans."
Forbes

"We might not ever get that reunion special at Central Perk, but Austerlitz has given us the next best thing with this behind-the-scenes look at the world that brought us Monica, Rachel, Ross, Chandler, Phoebe and Joey."
Newsweek

"Saul Austerlitz gives a comprehensive behind-the-scenes look at everyone's favorite show."
InStyle

“All die-hard fans need to read this tome, which reveals never-before-known tidbits, including how the show writers’ lives inspired the storylines for the beloved characters.” 

Star 

“Chock full of behind-the-scenes info, this fond accounting is a must-read for both new and old
Friends fans.” 
Booklist (starred review)

“Addictively readable. Come because you’re a fan, stay because you realize that 
Friends did (take that, Chandler Bing!) define a cultural moment: a world where coffee shops were just beginning to take off as “third places,” television wasn’t available to DVR or stream, and networks were starting to warm up to sitcoms about nothing. I’m halfway through Saul Austerlitz’s ode to this NBC hit, and I can’t wait to finish it and annoy my friends with fun Friends facts.”
—Sarah Gelman, Director of Books & Editorial, Amazon Book Review blog

“A treat for 
Friends fans, from OG Must See TV viewers to the new generation of streamers, full of insights into what made a quintessential '90s phenomenon into a lasting, international classic for the ages. You'll get your share of juicy behind-the-scenes tidbits, from vicious writers'-room debates about Rachel and Joey's romance to the time the producers almost moved the setting to Minneapolis (seriously). But you'll also get a hit of nostalgia for a time when an entire nation hung on the fate of Ross and Rachel, and plenty of smart analysis of why Friends was the right show at the right time...and also continues to be the right show at an entirely different time.”
—Jennifer Keishin Armstrong, New York Times bestselling author of Seinfeldia

Friends wasn't just a funny show—it was a generational work of art that evolved television’s scope. It proved that shows could travel beyond the dynamics of nuclear families and the virtue of strong cast chemistry. In Generation Friends, Saul Austerlitz transports us back to Central Perk with our eternal friends trying to find their place in the world. Just as importantly, he lifts the curtain to provide a sprawling behind-the-scenes look at its creation, enactment and still-growing legacy.”
—Jonathan Abrams, New York Times bestselling author of All the Pieces Matter
 

“With careful research and new and revealing interviews, Austerlitz's
Generation Friends does what a great behind-the-scenes book should do: it'll make you want to re-watch the entire series again from start to finish, with a new appreciation of everything from the writing and acting to set design and costumes. Better yet, Austerlitz provides some much-needed validation for those of us who never warmed to the whole Ross-Rachel thing, assuring us that we *might* have been on to something, even as he argues we were wrong. FIGHT ME, SAUL.”
—Brian Jay Jones, New York Times bestselling author of Jim Henson: The Biography and Becoming Dr. Seuss

“The ultimate peek behind the scenes into the creation and execution of the series that broke new ground with its inclusion of a lesbian wedding and other LGBTQ-related storylines.”
Baltimore Out Loud

“On its 25th anniversary, the show's die-hard fans will love Austerlitz's detailed, discerning, and sumptuous history.”
Kirkus Reviews

“Guiding readers through Hollywood politics, notes from the network, and a complicated casting process, the author documents the creation of the legendary television show… Austerlitz also goes behind the scenes, detailing overnight writing sessions, contract negotiations, and disagreements with directors…For followers of the program and lovers of pop culture.”
Library Journal

About the Author

Saul Austerlitz is the author of four previous books, including Just a Shot Away and Sitcom. His work has been published by The Boston Globe, The New York Times Magazine, Esquire, Rolling Stone, Slate, and the Los Angeles Times. He is a graduate of Yale and NYU's Tisch School of the Arts, and is an adjunct professor of writing and comedy history at NYU.

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B07P4ZZT3D
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Dutton (September 17, 2019)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ September 17, 2019
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 14943 KB
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  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 367 pages
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Saul Austerlitz is a freelance writer whose work has been published in the New York Times, New York Times Magazine, Esquire, Vanity Fair, Rolling Stone, the Boston Globe, Los Angeles Times, Slate, and The New Republic, among others.

He is an adjunct professor of writing and comedy history at New York University, as well as the author of Kind of a Big Deal: How Anchorman Stayed Classy and Became the Most Iconic Comedy of the Twenty-First Century (Dutton, 2023), Generation Friends: An Inside Look at the Show That Defined a Television Era (Dutton, 2019), Just a Shot Away: Peace, Love, and Tragedy with the Rolling Stones at Altamont (Thomas Dunne Books, 2018), Sitcom: A History in 24 Episodes from I Love Lucy to Community (Chicago Review Press, 2014), Another Fine Mess: A History of American Film Comedy (Chicago Review Press, 2010), and Money for Nothing: A History of the Music Video from the Beatles to the White Stripes (Continuum, 2007). Booklist named Another Fine Mess one of the ten best arts books of 2010, and Just a Shot Away received rave reviews, including from the New York Times Book Review, which called it “the most blisteringly impassioned music book of the season.” Generation Friends was named the second-best comedy book of 2019 by New York magazine, as well as one of New York’s 15 best books on TV comedies.

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An Inside look at the show that defined an Era!
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An Inside look at the show that defined an Era!
A behind the scenes look at the pop culture phenomenon that is Friends! ⁣⁣I usually don’t read too much Nonfiction but when I saw this was about my favorite TV show I knew I had to read it! This novel has exclusive interviews with staff members that were present during the filming of Friends. Fun Fact: Friends was not the original title they had planned for the series! ⁣I also found it interesting that the entire cast that we know and love were almost not apart of the show due to prior commitments! It also lays out all the episodes of the most important moments in the series and how it created such a wave in our culture! ⁣This novel was super informative and being such a huge fan of the show it was amazing getting an inside look! ⁣⁣Huge thanks to @duttonbooks for the ARC in exchange for an honest review!
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Reviewed in the United States on May 15, 2020
What a great and entertaining read! I'm fascinated by 1990s-era TV, but I actually didn't know that much about Friends before picking up this book. Austerlitz's narration is very accessible and absorbing, and I found reading about the show's genesis, context, critical reception, and impact totally captivating. I really recommend this for anyone interested in the show, the time period, or television history. Terrific.
Reviewed in the United States on February 18, 2020
This book was written for me. Friends was and is my favorite sit-com. At the time it was in its first run, this was the show that spoke to me. Though I only dreamed of living in NYC at the time, I am the same age as the actors in the show and, at the time, it seemed a reflection of my life. Whereas Seinfeld, though funny was peopled with unpleasant characters I would never voluntarily spend time with and Mad About You was about a couple, the six (at first) single friends felt like the group of people that gathered at my house every Thursday for years to eat pizza, have great conversation and watch the new episodes.

As a fan, I was aware of some of the history and behind-the-scenes information that Mr. Austerlitz goes over here. Still, there was much I did not know, and he does an excellent job putting the entire story together. Starting when there was just the germ of an idea, through the hard process of putting the pilot together and getting the show started, and continuing with the highs & lows of the shows successes (and occasional failures, if we’re being honest), this book hits all the marks.

Mr. Austerlitz also takes some time to discuss the show’s afterlife and its continued popularity. He doesn’t ignore the ways in which the show has aged poorly—the casual homophobia, for example—but he recognizes why young people still flock to the show. In our modern world of fractured TV, there are only a handful of shows that have retained their popularity in the decades after their cancellation. Friends is one of those and it would be a mistake for a fan to miss this book.
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Reviewed in the United States on May 2, 2020
I am most of the way through, and as I continue, I am struck by the how deep the writers/creators developed each character’s persona and backdrop. They made these six flawed personalities not only real, but they did an outstanding job of mirroring the real world at the time. The insights explained in this book remind me of the way the MASH characters were developed and their likes, dislikes, and vulnerabilities were explored. Too many shows today do not reflect the writers’ intention to develop the characters; they’re too busy chasing ratings and instant gratification. If they focus on character development more, the accolades they seek will come naturally!
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Reviewed in the United States on October 16, 2019
This was a fun nostalgic read. I loved reading the behind-the-scenes stories, especially from the writers and producers. For some clarity, I work as a talent agent and covered "Friends". I probably booked 20+ guest starts and recurring players during the course of the series. I wish the author had spoken with Leslie Litt, who took over as casting director during Season 2 and remained thru the end of the show's run. She has amazing stories that aren't just about the pilot casting, but the casting of the other 200+ memorable episodes.
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Reviewed in the United States on October 29, 2019
My granddaughter is a huge The Office fan ! She is very knowledgeable about the characters and she said this book will be fun to test her knowledge !
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Reviewed in the United States on August 18, 2021
Facts are mostly good, but the author drips with wokism and never misses a chance to say how there are various sexist, homophobic, etc trends in Friends. It gets on your nerves after awhile.
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Reviewed in the United States on November 8, 2019
I've always loved the show and wanted to read some more history behind it. Loved the book too. Interesting and funny. A great read for any fan. Highly recommend.
Reviewed in the United States on February 21, 2020
I’m still reading this book but so far I’m loving all the behind the scenes details of one of my favorite shows! Well written!

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Reviewed in Canada on October 5, 2019
One of the best books about a TV series I've ever read. The author delivers a meticulous, yet entirely readable chronicle of what it took to put a hit show like Friends together and how its writers, producers and cast worked tirelessly to keep it going for ten successful years.

The author had unprecedented access to the show creators, writers and producers, which means there is a treasure trove of new information within, instead of the usual rehashing of old interviews and episode recaps.

The candid nature of the interviews offer insight into the creative struggles happening behind the scenes. In particular, I enjoyed hearing about director James Burrows experience shaping the show and then being moved along when there were creative differences. Such is showbiz!

There is even a thoughtful and balanced chapter about the WOC writer's assistant who filed a discrimination suit (and lost).

I've read several Friends books over the years and this is the best one by far. It's destined to be a must-read for screenwriters, producers, and anyone else interested in TV production for years to come.
Lee McMonagle
5.0 out of 5 stars Friends Fans Will Love This!
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 7, 2020
Bought this as a Christmas gift for my Friends - obsessed sister. She loves it so far, which should tell you all you need to know! What particularly drew me to this one over the countless other Friends books is the more behind-the-scenes, fly on the wall tidbits from the people involved.
I had a slight hiccup in delivery, but I contacted the seller and all was sorted out. Thanks for everything!
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Reviewed in Japan on November 11, 2023
I liked the book and it really does explain how a series that seems so simple as FRIENDS became the hit series we know now. I find it a very easy to read book if I may say so, kind of book that you read when you don’t want to be crushed with emotions.

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