346 episodes

Life is freaking hard. We are all doing hard things every single day – things like loving and losing; caring for children and parents; forging and ending friendships; battling addiction, illness, and loneliness; struggling in our jobs, our marriages, and our divorces; setting boundaries; and fighting for equality, purpose, freedom, joy, and peace.
On We Can Do Hard Things, Glennon Doyle, author of UNTAMED; her wife Abby Wambach; and her sister Amanda Doyle do the only thing they’ve found that has ever made life easier: Drop the fake and talk honestly about the hard things including sex, gender, parenting, blended families, bodies, anxiety, addiction, justice, boundaries, fun, quitting, overwhelm . . . all of it.
We laugh and cry and help each other carry the hard so we can all live a little bit lighter and braver, free-er, less alone.

We Can Do Hard Things Glennon Doyle and Audacy

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 38.1K Ratings

Life is freaking hard. We are all doing hard things every single day – things like loving and losing; caring for children and parents; forging and ending friendships; battling addiction, illness, and loneliness; struggling in our jobs, our marriages, and our divorces; setting boundaries; and fighting for equality, purpose, freedom, joy, and peace.
On We Can Do Hard Things, Glennon Doyle, author of UNTAMED; her wife Abby Wambach; and her sister Amanda Doyle do the only thing they’ve found that has ever made life easier: Drop the fake and talk honestly about the hard things including sex, gender, parenting, blended families, bodies, anxiety, addiction, justice, boundaries, fun, quitting, overwhelm . . . all of it.
We laugh and cry and help each other carry the hard so we can all live a little bit lighter and braver, free-er, less alone.

    How to Stop Avoiding Yourself: Feel The Loneliness, Jealousy & Longing

    How to Stop Avoiding Yourself: Feel The Loneliness, Jealousy & Longing

    328. How to Stop Avoiding Yourself: Feel The Loneliness, Jealousy & Longing

    Glennon, Abby, and Amanda discuss how to move through loneliness, longing and jealousy. Glennon and Abby also share their experience at The Gracie Awards and recap their heartfelt speech about breast health and dense breasts dedicated to Amanda. 

    Discover: 
    -What loneliness might be trying to teach us; 
    -How Glennon really feels about jealousy and women supporting women; 
    -Why it’s so hard to remove all the obstacles we create to connection and love; and
    -How to let go of the picture of how it’s “supposed” to be.

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    • 54 min
    Inside Out 2 Review + Our Fav Books & TV Right Now

    Inside Out 2 Review + Our Fav Books & TV Right Now

    327. Inside Out 2 Review + Our Fav Books & TV Right Now 

    Glennon, Amanda, and Abby discuss Pixar’s new film, 'Inside Out 2,' exploring its depiction of emotions, particularly focusing on anxiety and its role in our lives. Per Pod Squad request, they also share what they’ve each been reading and watching, so you can add to your list! 

    Discover: 
    -Which emotion from Inside Out 2 they each related to the most; 
    -Glennon’s new morning practice to help ease her anxiety; 
    -Why Glennon rarely shares what she’s reading publicly; and
    -Abby’s TV show rec to help you take a break from yourself.

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    • 56 min
    When You Feel Invisible: Photos, Love & Truly Noticing Your Person

    When You Feel Invisible: Photos, Love & Truly Noticing Your Person

    When You Feel Invisible: Photos, Love & Truly Noticing Your Person

    Amanda, Glennon, and Abby revisit a powerful conversation about why so many women in heterosexual relationships are missing from family photos and what it signifies about their relationships and humanity. Join us for an encore episode originally titled, "125. WHY ARE THERE NO PICTURES OF US?!?"

    In this episode, discover: 

    1. How it feels to not be in any of your family photos, why it happens, and how to change it.
    2. A call-in question from a husband that made Amanda cry.
    3. Reimagining “acts of service” and how to know whether actions belong in the “Adulting Bucket” or the “Love Bucket.”
    4. How getting the kids to read over the summer went terribly, thanks for asking.

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    • 57 min
    Why We Can’t Sleep & How to Fix It with Dr. Shelby Harris

    Why We Can’t Sleep & How to Fix It with Dr. Shelby Harris

    326. Why We Can’t Sleep & How to Fix It with Dr. Shelby Harris 

    Psychologist and sleep expert, Dr. Shelby Harris, takes us on a deep dive into our most important pillar of health: SLEEP. From insomnia to night anxiety to revenge procrastination to snoring partners, Dr. Shelby Harris has realistic, concrete advice to help us understand why we struggle – and how to get the sleep we need.    

    How much sleep should we really get – and the signs we’re not getting enough.

    Realistic sleep wellness for women – and how to share the mental load that’s keeping us up. 

    How to handle snoring – and how to create a sleep alliance with our partners – (this part changed Abby and Glennon’s sleep plan forever!)

    Plus, Abby’s hot tip for fixing your social media algorithm. (Spoiler alert: Highland mini cows.) 

    About Dr. Harris: 
    Dr. Shelby Harris is a psychologist and sleep specialist who treats a wide variety of sleep, anxiety, and depression issues. In addition to her book The Women’s Guide to Overcoming Insomnia, Dr. Harris has been a columnist for the New York Times, and has been featured in other media including the New Yorker, Washington Post, Today Show, and Good Morning America. Dr. Harris can be found on Instagram at @SleepDocShelby where she provides evidence-based information about sleep wellness and sleep disorders.

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    • 1 hr 11 min
    Glennon & Abby's Guide to Confronting Crisis with Compassion

    Glennon & Abby's Guide to Confronting Crisis with Compassion

    325. Glennon & Abby's Guide to Confronting Crisis with Compassion

    Glennon and Abby discuss how they have gotten through recent crises, and take your questions on how to get through life’s most challenging moments. 

    Discover: 
    -Why Glennon suspects this time might actually be beautiful and why Abby feels like an exposed root;
    -From laying on the floor to finding solace in art, what to do tumultuous times; and
    -A tip for how to start processing when you feel emotionally blocked.

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    • 46 min
    The Embodied Path to Healing Trauma with Resmaa Menakem

    The Embodied Path to Healing Trauma with Resmaa Menakem

    324. The Embodied Path to Healing Trauma with Resmaa Menakem

    Author, therapist, licensed clinical worker, racialized trauma expert, Resmaa Menakem discusses the concepts of somatic abolitionism, and the importance of embodied anti-racist practices. 

    Discover: 
    -The difference between clean and dirty pain;
    -What white people need to do in order to help create an anti-racist society; and
    -Why we should shift from looking at the personal to looking at the historical to heal our traumas.

    On Resmaa: Resmaa Menakem is an author, agent of change, therapist, and licensed clinical worker specializing in racialized trauma, communal healing, and cultural first aid. As the leading proponent of Somatic Abolitionism – an embodied anti-racist practice for living and culture building – Resmaa is the founder of Justice Leadership Solutions and the Cultural Somatics Institute.

    Resmaa works at the intersections of anti-racism, communal healing, and embodied purpose, and is the author of the New York Times bestseller My Grandmother’s Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies, The Quaking of America: An Embodied Guide to Navigating Our Nation’s Upheaval and Racial Reckoning, Monsters in Love: Why Your Partner Sometimes Drives You Crazy—And What You Can Do About It, and The Stories from My Grandmother’s Hands, a children’s picture book with actor T. Mychael Rambo and illustrator Leroy Campbell.

    In 2023, Resmaa released an on-demand self-paced course titled Healing Racialized Trauma: Somatic Abolitionism for Every Body. You can learn more about Resmaa and his work at www.resmaa.com.

    Work with Resmaa: https://blackoctopussociety.com/

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    • 1 hr 7 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
38.1K Ratings

38.1K Ratings

Sonoma Susan ,

Beautiful conversations!

Such a treat to have your insights accompany me on walks, drives, and hikes! That said, certain episodes merit a dedicated listen with an appropriate beverage based on the time of day :-). Thank you for your candid, inviting conversations!

NinaDG ,

Always excellent

AND episode 324 with Resmaa was best yet. Re-listening required.

Katchannel ,

Diagnosis

Thank you Amanda for sharing your cancer story. It is still so big and scary-raw and overwhelming.
I was diagnosed 41/2 years ago with ovarian cancer. You have my prayers and support for what you have shared. You are doing what you need to do.
I love what you three do on this podcast. My 29 year old daughter shared you with me. Timeless- I am 56 and still growing.
Katchannel1 on instagram if you need a conversation. I would love to do an episode with you as a more mature woman living with cancer

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