15 Best Long-Distance Sex Toys to Keep the Spark Alive From Afar
Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship or traveling, you can use the best long-distance sex toys to take the rein and explore a different type of intimacy from anywhere in the world. Take it from Glamour contributor and sex toy reviewer Amanda Chatel: “For most of my life, my relationships have been long distance. While this has been annoying and difficult, it’s made me realize that even if my partner is away, our sex life doesn’t have to suffer. That’s where app-controlled sex toys for couples come in. Thanks to the wonders of technology, you can actually turn masturbation into a partnered encounter. Granted, a part of me will always have fond memories of those phone sex days of yore, but I’m so happy to have innovative and interactive devices at the tips of my fingers (and clit!) instead.”
It’s no secret that LDRs are hard work, but with the help of these high-tech toys, you might feel closer than ever to your SO. In fact, some people enjoy the element of surprise that it enables; while others appreciate the feeling of closeness it can provide with far-off partners. And it doesn’t hurt that vibrators do things no human body can (or has the stamina for), leading to some very intense orgasms. So start the party by sending some spicy sexts to set the mood, lie back and imagine your partner is right there with you when using your wand vibrator or suction toy, and get ready for some intimate, arousing, and orgasmic fun. Below are the best long-distance sex toys to try to keep things hot, even when you and your partner(s) can’t enjoy each other’s company in person.
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We-Vibe Sync 2
Of all the long-distance vibrators out there, this one (along with the similar We-Vibe Chorus) is perhaps the most well-known. It features one arm that fits comfortably inside the vagina and another that buzzes on the clitoris—just right for hands-free blended orgasms. Partners can ramp up the vibrations for your pleasure through the We-Connect app, which acts like a remote control. And when you’re in the mood for a solo session, it can even buzz in sync with music.
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
- Noise level: Quiet
- Vibration modes: 10
- Waterproof: Yes
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Pros: Waterproof; wearable; quiet
- Cons: Can be tough to keep in place
- Review: We-Vibe was my first introduction to long-distance couples toys, and I’ve been hooked ever since. Just like the first one I tried about a decade ago, Sync 2 is just as fun yet as reliable as the first generation. For me, it’s the ideal sex toy for my LDRs. —Amanda Chatel, Glamour writer and sex toy reviewer
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- 2/15
Lelo Tiani Harmony
Lelo’s waterproof app-enabled toy is equal parts G-spot vibrator and clitoral vibrator, meaning you’re in for a doozy of a climax. When you and your partner are together, it sends pleasurable vibrations into the penis; when you’re apart, it’s almost as good (or perhaps even better than) the real thing. Thanks to two hours of battery life, it’s built for from-afar rendezvous of any length.
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
- Noise level: Quiet
- Vibration modes: 10
- Waterproof: Yes
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Pros: Two motors; waterproof; for use during masturbation or sex
- Cons: Expensive
- Review: I’ve tried We-Vibe’s wearable vibrators but have found this design is a better fit. It’s smooth and hugs my vulva and the inside of my vagina snugly so there’s no escaping those intense vibrations once it’s playtime. —Suzanne, PR rep in NYC
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- 3/15
Lovense Nora
Aside from Bluetooth-enabled partner control, other cool features of this rabbit vibrator include its rotating head, bumpy shaft, and flexible vibrating arm—all of which make sure you’ll get plenty of moan-inducing G-spot and clitoral stimulation. The USB-rechargeable toy is made of water-resistant, body-safe silicone and can be paired with other Lovense toys, including additional Noras or their penis-focused companion, Max (see the Max 2, below), to make a couples’ set.
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 4-hour rechargeable battery
- Noise level: Quiet
- Vibration modes: 3
- Waterproof: No
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Pros: Great battery; powerful vibrations; can connect to other toys
- Cons: Not waterproof
- Review: Lovense Nora is a pretty typical rabbit vibrator that gets the job done when you’re rolling solo. So honestly, the only things that make this toy a real standout is the fact that it can be controlled from a distance and be paired with the male masturbator Max, making nights apart feel less so. —Elena, NYC
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- 4/15
Lovense Max 2
This male masturbator connects to other Lovense toys (including the Nora, above) to thrust in sync, creating the sensation of real-deal intercourse. The toy itself is a sophisticated masturbation sleeve with vibrations and 360-degree contractions that you can customize through the Lovense app, as well as an adjustable air vent that lets you control the suction. Strokers don’t get much more high-tech—or pleasurable—than this.
- Material: Soft ABS plastic
- Battery: 3.5-hour rechargeable battery
- Noise level: Medium
- Vibration modes: 10
- Waterproof: Splashproof
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Pros: Great battery; powerful vibrations; connects to other toys
- Cons: Not waterproof
- Review: I didn’t know what to expect, but after using it a few times, I can honestly say spend the money, buy the thing. It’s absolutely worth every penny, and if you’re in a long-distance relationship, then it’s definitely worth it! —reviewer at Lovehoney
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- 5/15
Lelo Ida Wave Vibrator
To say we’re all big fans of the Lelo Ida Wave here at Glamour would be an understatement. Why? Because while it’s working its magic on the clit, it’s also seriously delivering on the G-spot stimulation front. It has dual motors and 10 really intense vibration modes but still manages to be one heck of a quiet vibrator. It also just feels really good. All you need are a few dabs of water-based lube and the willingness to give complete control to your partner via the app, and you’re in for one hell of a treat.
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
- Noise level: Quiet
- Vibration modes: 10
- Waterproof: Yes
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Pros: Dual stimulation; mimics fingering
- Cons: Might be a bit intense for beginners
- Review: I had the opportunity to use this toy during a video chat with a partner. I couldn’t keep this gold mine of pleasure to myself, after all. I appreciated the fact that it stays in place, no hands required—so my hands could focus on other things, like holding and positioning my phone. —Suzannah Weiss, Glamour writer and sex toy reviewer
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We-Vibe Moxie+
If you’re feeling adventurous and want to experience pleasure outside the privacy of your bedroom, this panty vibrator provides a discreet way to test the waters. It has a magnet that keeps it securely inside your underwear while your partner dials up the pleasure with the accompanying app. The rumbles come in 10 different vibration modes, enough to satisfy sex toy beginners and experts alike.
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
- Noise level: Medium to loud
- Vibration modes: 10
- Waterproof: Yes
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Pros: Waterproof; wearable; remote-controlled
- Cons: Loud
- Review: I’ve been around the block a few times with wearable vibrators, and this one remains one of my favorites because of its design. I won’t say that I’m not sometimes concerned it won’t accidentally slip out, but as far as power goes, it really hits the spot. —A.C.
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- 7/15
Satisfyer Love Triangle
Long-distance couples don’t have to miss out on oral sex. The open end of this ergonomic suction toy pulses the clitoris with air, mimicking the feeling of oral sex with knee-weakening accuracy. When your partner opens the brand’s app, they can select from 11 intensities and 10 vibration patterns to tease you toward climax. And since this toy is waterproof, you can even enjoy a digital tryst in the bath.
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
- Noise level: Quiet
- Vibration modes: 21
- Waterproof: Yes
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Pros: Waterproof; quiet; two motors
- Cons: Might break down quickly
- Review: I love this one not just because it’s a clit sucker but because of its shape and size. It’s easy to hold and isn’t cumbersome like other toys so I can play with it for hours while my partner surprises me with different intensities and patterns. — Sarah, PR rep in NYC
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Kiiroo Onyx+
If your partner has a penis, this stroker toy allows you to give them a lifelike sexual experience from anywhere on the globe. The lightweight shaft has a quiet rotating motor that goes up and down to mimic thrusting, moving as fast as 140 strokes a minute. To get in on the action, connect it to any Kiiroo device (including the aforementioned Esca 2), and your toys can respond to each other’s motions. It can also be paired with VR porn and cam sites for a lifelike feeling.
- Material: Soft ABS plastic
- Battery: 1-hour rechargeable battery
- Noise level: Medium
- Vibration modes: 21
- Waterproof: No
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Pros: Intense sensations; lightweight; connects to other toys
- Cons: Expensive; not waterproof
- Review: The toy feels fantastic, I love the change of grip and the ability to stroke in either direction or even just specific parts. It being able to sync up to videos in VR only adds to the experience and very immersive. —reviewer at Kiiroo.com
- 9/15
Lovense Lush 3
A wearable egg vibrator, the Lush 3 is designed to drive you wild with simultaneous internal and external vibrations. Long-distance partners can choose from three speeds and four pleasure patterns while you try not to scream. Its most impressive feature is its 4.5-hour battery, perfect for couples who like to let things simmer.
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 4.5-hour rechargeable battery
- Noise level: Quiet
- Vibration modes: 7
- Waterproof: Yes
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Pros: Waterproof; wearable; quiet
- Cons: Might break down quickly
- Review: Unlike with other wearable vibrators, you can tell that this one isn’t going anywhere so I wear it out in public without worrying about it slipping out. It also has unlimited combinations of speeds and intensities when you connect it to the app—something I discovered accidentally but am so happy I did. — Jenny in Denver
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- 10/15
Most Flexible: MysteryVibe Crescendo
MysteryVibe’s super-flexible vibrator is built with six motors and can be molded into endless shapes, all while your SO controls each vibration from anywhere in the world. It’s waterproof and shockingly similar to the sensation of fingers—but it beats the real thing by never cramping up and by rumbling with 16 unique intensities. If you and your partner love to get creative, this toy is worth the investment.
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
- Noise level: Quiet
- Vibration modes: 16
- Waterproof: Yes
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Pros: Waterproof; ultra-flexible; inclusive of all bodies
- Cons: Expensive
- Review: My complaint with MysteryVibe products will always be the price. Yes, they make great sex toys and their app is easier to use than a lot of brands, but I still haven’t decided if the price is worth it. But I would def recommend it if you don’t mind dropping over $200 on a vibrator. — Lindsay, at-home mom in NYC
- 11/15
We-Vibe Melt
For fans of suction toys—which are known to bring users to multiple near-instant orgasms—the Melt provides a sexy way to connect with a partner from a distance. Like other We-Vibe toys, it can be controlled through the brand’s app. It also has a slim shape that’s ideal for coupled use when you’re in the room together, and its quiet vibrations and waterproof body-safe silicone make it great for solo play as well.
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
- Noise level: Quiet
- Vibration modes: 12
- Waterproof: Yes
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Pros: Waterproof; quiet; 2-year warranty
- Cons: Focuses only on clit
- Review: When clit suckers first hit the market, I couldn’t wait for there to be one that could be controlled by an app—and here we are! Admittedly, Melt isn’t as intense as some of the Womanizer models, but they don’t have app capability, so it all works out in my mind. — Amber, yoga instructor in NYC
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- 12/15
Best Wand: We-Vibe Wand
Have you ever been at home enjoying a hot masturbation session and thought, Why hasn’t anyone made a long-distance wand toy? I know I have. Given that it’s one of the most powerful toys on the market, it seems crazy that the wand hasn’t inspired any app-controlled version, right? Well, We-Vibe creeped into our brains and read our minds because they gave us exactly what we wanted with the We-Vibe Wand. Whether you’re using it solo or via the app with a partner who’s miles away, this bad boy serves up some majorly intense orgasms that will leave you begging your partner for more, more, more.
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
- Noise level: Medium
- Vibration modes: 10
- Waterproof: Yes
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Pros: 2 extra attachments; powerful
- Cons: A bit heavy
- Review: An excessively powerful wand that my partner can control when they’re out of town for work? What else could anyone want in a toy? —Ryann, writer in NYC
- 13/15
MysteryVibe Legato
Although it might look like a penis ring, this circular vibrator is actually designed as a toy for the labia and vulva. It’s flexible and powered by four separate motors, meaning that when it’s in place, you’ll get 360 degrees of knee-weakening stimulation. Long-distance lovers can control the vibrations via an accompanying app; if you’re lucky enough to be in the same room, this toy also allows for penetration, adding pleasure for both partners.
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
- Noise level: Quiet
- Vibration modes: 26
- Waterproof: Yes
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Pros: Waterproof; flexible; four motors
- Cons: Expensive
- Review: I would have never spent this much on a sex toy—especially something that looks like a cock ring—but then I realized it’s actually for me! While it takes some getting used to in regards to placement and the 26 modes really aren’t necessary, I love it. —Suzanne, PR rep in NYC
- 14/15
We-Vibe Vector+
This prostate massager is designed specifically to hit the P-spot (also known as the male G-spot) for deeper, more intense climaxes than those from penis stimulation alone. The longer end stimulates the nerve endings around the prostate, while the exterior arm focuses a separate motor on the perineum—basically a recipe for a bedsheet-gripping orgasm. And because a partner can control everything from the brand’s app, your hands will be free to focus on sexting, FaceTime, or Zoom.
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
- Noise level: Quiet
- Vibration modes: 10
- Waterproof: Yes
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Pros: Waterproof; quiet; two motors; remote control
- Cons: Focuses only on prostate
- Review: I was hesitant about buying this because I’d tried similar looking app-controlled prostate massagers before, and they’re just too difficult to figure out. But I’m glad I splurged for this one. The app takes some getting used to, but once you do, it’s worth it and makes my partner being far away so often not such a bad thing. —Miguel, mixologist in Barcelona
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- 15/15
Best Cock Ring: Lelo Tor 3
Cock rings aren’t just for partnered sex. By restricting the blood flow to your penis, they help you achieve fuller, more intense erections and delay your climax—two features that are ideal for sending nudes or getting frisky during a video chat. As Lelo’s most recent contribution to the world of cock rings, Tor 3 can easily be connected to the Lelo app, making long-distance play extra fun while a partner sends rumbling waves of vibration through the penis and the perineum. It also makes for a great couples vibrator when you’re together, stimulating the clit, penis, and scrotum all at once.
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
- Noise level: Quiet
- Vibration modes: 8
- Waterproof: Yes
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Pros: Waterproof; flexible; intense vibrations
- Cons: Might be uncomfortable for newbies
- Review: From the get-go, I was a big fan of Tor 2. Super flexible, comfortable for my partner, and delicious vibrations that we could both enjoy. So when Lelo launched Tor 3 with two additional vibration settings and app compatibility, I was immediately sold. True to form, it didn’t disappoint and has become one of my favorite long-distance gadgets. —A.C