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“Today, we won’t retire the same way as our parents would,” I once told a friend who was dreaming of retiring early. What would that even mean, I wonder. Does it mean a complete pause on all income-generating work? Does it mean working on only things you love? Does retirement mean sitting at the beach reading a book whenever your heart desire? The truth is, us millennials romanticise the ideals of retiring based on what our parents aren’t able to do today. They can’t take long holidays — so we want long holidays. They don’t have work life balance — so we want work life balance. They are tired — so we don’t want to feel tired. A few years back, when my dad, who was a career careerist (35 years of non-stop work), got laid off, he spent six months just moping about at home. At the tail end of it, he got a mini stroke, unable to open the door lock, compelled to be hospitalised. Thankfully he’s now fully recovered but that incident convinced me of one thing — that we should never stop moving. That’s not to say that retirement cannot be about the cliche of sitting by the beach and reading a book. Or sipping on cocktails at lunch, your time completely and entirely your own. It can be about that — but is it only about that? I am so tired of hearing people say they can’t wait to retire and do nothing. Because all I hear is a willingness to slip into mental decline and embracing a life sans meaning. All I hear is someone wanting to run away from the vagaries of life. All I hear is someone who still hasn’t found their real purpose in life. Someone who’s still running away from something — but what? It’s why stories like Mr Tai’s makes me so happy. Here’s a man who toiled his whole life and is excited for the future having only started — at 75. Seventy five. I can only imagine the career retirist (you know the type — FIRE this, FIRE that etc) frothing at their mouth, holding pitchforks and demanding we believe them when they say that Mr Tai is unhappy and should not be working so hard. Never mind that the man himself says it’s okay. This story makes me think about what retiring looks like for me — Type A, city girl, constantly restless, perpetually in need of mental stimulation. For me, retirement means having a career, having goals, having purpose, and having meaning at the job and work you’re pursuing. Retiring means living your truth and finding joy in waking up every morning. Retiring is about making a difference. Going by that definition, I can certainly say I’m halfway there.

Big Age, Bigger Dreams: This Senior Citizen Rejects Retirement Deadlines

Big Age, Bigger Dreams: This Senior Citizen Rejects Retirement Deadlines

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Ryan Koh

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1mo

I started very early in the business world at 12, initially with the goal of retiring my parents then myself. But as years went by and business grew, I realised I fell in love with running the business - meeting new clients, growing different brands, most importantly making an impact on people's life. I wouldn't want to retire if what I'm doing is aligned with my passion and values. Perhaps with age is to slow down the pace of work but definitely not to stop all work. We still have to be engaged so our minds can stay active. Retirement may be the light at the end of the tunnel for those who do not enjoy or like what they are doing. But instead of waiting to reach retirement, why not take active steps to upskill and dive into the area that one is interested in?

Sha-En Yeo (MAPP, CSP)

Happiness Scientist - I enhance the wellbeing and performance of leaders and teams using positive psychology | 2x TEDx Speaker | Clients: VISA, Google, TikTok, RBC

1mo

Well said Zat Astha ! The notion of retirement like you described needs to redefined to what works for us. I would to want be engaged, contributing to someone worthy and of course, having the time of my life. And to do that, I gotta keep myself healthy and happy. A life well lived doesn’t have to be either relaxed or tired, working or not. To me it’s more about a life that matters and that we can say we experienced it fully👌🌻

Anh Luong 🍀

I write about human connection and happiness in a digital world | Family business owner | 15+ years exp. in Education.

4w

I think you are too harsh to judge people who still hasn't found their real purpose in life. I read "100 years life" by Linda Gratton and Andrew Scott in 2016, and knew that I need to work until I'm 80 years old to survive in a long life. I knew in order to work until that age, it has to be a calling, not just a job. I set out to find this calling. But after 8 years, I still don't find it. No answer seems right. That doesn't mean I will stop searching. And the good thing is: as long as I continue to improve myself, do the work to better myself, it doesn't matter if I find my answer at 75. All the years I am working, trying new things are also meaningful. In the same way, "retirement" really just mean gather more wisdom to reinvent yourself and finding new way to offer your work as service to better others' life. One day at a time. However long you get to live on this earth. Isn't it a gift?

I promised my kids that I will resign/ retired once I reach the age of 60 which I did at 58. The thought of retirement at that time was something I was looking forward to. After about less than 3 months I felt restless at home. I tried to occupied my time with joining clubs and association but still I was restless. I have to work even a simple job as clerk just to get that satisfaction. I did find some short contract jobs and now looking agsin after Ive finished the last one. Will companies still hired ppl like me after the age of 60?

Camillia Dass

Deputy Editor, SEA at Marketing Interactive

4w

I think when people in this age say they can’t wait to retire or retire early, what they really mean is that they can’t wait for life to slow down just a bit and for it to be socially acceptable that it is. For me, retirement looks like doing freelance articles purely on my own time and whims and fancy without any pressure to earn money or hustle or to do bigger or better things each time. But also I think it’s a very journalistic thing to not understand wanting to slow down and do nothing. We are programmed to constantly be looking for the next thing almost every hour 😂

Thanks for your message. In my view, retirement is the social construct. I believe in the ability of people at the later aged can do for the benefit of themselves and society as a whole. This means, the commitment and ability of people to perform tasks at the later aged is powerful : )

Andrea T.

I hold space for the taboo and the tough conversations. Multi-hyphenate geek. FinTech FX & Payments | Femtech Entrepreneur | B2B Marketing & Communications | Love & Intimacy Coach | Navigating Transitions

1mo

I’d say I want you to be active and doing work I love. That said being a divorced single mom and my friends who have chosen singlehood, we do discuss what it means on the practical financial sense because we have only ourselves as safety nets, and what will that look like for retirement.

Thanks for the message, this situation really like me now. I start work since 19th years old - I thought my company will allow me to service until 60th but I have to wrapped in sudden at 58. 3.5 month up and down mood feels like useless. Start joint the small medium enterprises cooking baking juicing, at last I surrender to God for everything

Jovie Lim

Licensed Financial Planner, RFP, IFP I Certified Result Coach I Financial Educator

4w

Very well said! Return on Life...Live your life with full of purpose and getting the best life possible with the resources we have. Keep moving, live life to fullest ✨️

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