I'm going to approach this subject two ways. The first will certainly be considered a "humbug" approach. The second will probably have mixed reviews. First, the "humbug" approach or how I let a phrase like "giving back" totally irritate the heck out of me. But why? Because, often, when people feel they have some extra time in their lives and want to do something for their community, they say they want to "give back". Well, here's my point. Give what back to whom and why? I guess you could…