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Ah, sex toys. As a grown adult, hopefully, you’ve found a few favorite standbys for your personal pleasure chest. (If not, allow us to recommend some favorites.) But if you typically only use your sex toys to go alone, it’s time to expand your horizon and consider some new possibilities. As it turns out, sex toys aren’t just for solo play — they can also make partnered adventures even more enthralling. And we’re not just talking about using what you have. Yes, you can grab your fave vibe and bring it to the coupled mix, but there’s a whole market full of toys designed to give both you and your boo pleasure, no jealousy required.
Like most things, the enjoyment of toys is better shared. We focused here on toys that are meant to be used with a partner. From hands-free vibrators to clenched-Kegel dildos, we think these are the best toys to explore with your best bed friend. And you’re a little nervous about asking them to branch out and experiment with you, lean into it — the nerves will bring some adrenaline and might just make the whole thing that much more exciting. After all, you never know what they might be into until you ask.
So go on. Add a little buzz to your breakfast sex, some daring to your dinnertime denouement. These toys can help.
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A version of this story was published October 2017.
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b-Vibe Trio Plug
Image Credit: b-Vibe Since everyone has a butt, this plug can be used on either partner. If vagina owners are partnered with penis owners, this vibrating plug can increase sensation for both partners during penetrative sex.
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JimmyJane Ascend 2
Image Credit: JimmyJane This rabbit vibrator comes with flexible ears that you can bend and shape to suit your (and your partner’s) desires. You can bend it to the contours of your body and leave it in place to keep your hands free during play, and reviewers love it — one user says it “will always be my favorite clitoral vibe.”
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Beginner Bondage Kit
Image Credit: LoveHoney.com Partners get everything they need to bind, tie, flog, gag, and blindfold each other in this beginner’s kit. Just don’t forget your safe word.
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Basics Strap-On Harness
Image Credit: LoveHoney.com Perfect for strap-on sex or pegging, this kit comes with two dildos and a comfortable, adjustable harness. It’s a great way to change up dominance dynamics in the bedroom.
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Dame Eva
Image Credit: Dame This toy is designed to tuck underneath the labia and vibrate against the clitoris for hands-free playtime. The brand recommends it for girl-on-top positions and even under harnesses.
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We-Vibe Unite
Image Credit: We-Vibe This toy works best for couples in which at least one partner has a vagina. The vibrator can be worn during penetrative vaginal sex to stimulate both the G-spot and the clitoris while increasing tightness for the penetrating partner.
It’s also great if you and your partner have to be away from each other — a partner can control the toy via the We-Vibe app.
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Je Joue Mio
Image Credit: Babeland The crème de la crème of cock rings, this rechargeable toy has five speeds and fits well around most penises or dildos. Penis owners will love the vibration and restriction, and clitoris owners will love the added stimulation during thrusting.
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Sharevibe
Image Credit: Babeland This toy works best for couples in which at least one person has a vagina and both are into penetration. One end of the vibrator is shaped to stimulate the G-spot and clitoris, while the other end can be used to penetrate a partner. It can be paired with a harness if you want, or it can be an intense Kegel exercise.
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Colours DP Pleasures Double Dildo
Image Credit: NS Novelties This double-ended dildo is perfect for partner play, especially when both partners are into penetration, because you can both get penetrated at once. The best part? The toy is super-flexible — you can bend or straighten it to hit whatever pleasure points you want.
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Strap On Me XL Vibrating
Image Credit: Lovely Planet A double dildo, but it vibrates. Get ready for some intense sensations with this toy, which is great to use when one partner feels a little more dominant, but both partners want to be penetrated.
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