I can't stop meeting great guys. Is it time to give up on my dating ban?
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Sara Kuburic is a therapist who specializes in identity, relationships and moral trauma. Every week she shares her advice with our readers. Find her on Instagram @millennial.therapist. She can be reached at SKuburic@gannett.com.
Question: "After a couple of tough years emotionally (dealing with assault and PTSD) I recently broke up with my wonderful boyfriend to focus on my own health, recovery and well-being.
Since then, I have met at least five incredible men. All very, very eligible bachelors. Do I stick to my guns and take this time alone? Or give one of these guys a chance?
I'd go as far as saying one of them is everything I could have dreamed of and more – we've had a bit of a whirlwind romance but we made the decision that the timing wasn't right, and it would be best to cool it off for now.