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Cathy Reay
Writer
Cathy Reay is a freelance journalist covering disability politics, sex and relationships.
By Cathy Reay
12 sex tips for disabled people and their partners
Finding accessible positions, movements, and toys can involve a lot of trial and error.
By Cathy Reay
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It’s Disability Pride Month. So why is nobody talking about it?
"This term ‘disability’ coupled with ‘pride’, is sometimes seen as oxymoronic by able-bodied people and that alone makes me even prouder to call myself disabled and proud."
By Cathy Reay
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The myth of realising you're queer 'too late' in life
Age is nothing but a number in the context of finding out who you really are.
By Cathy Reay
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